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How unfortunate when people have never learned to love!

There are many people like this husband. They don’t show affection because it is something they have never learned to do. And to them it feels strange and unnecessary.
How unfortunate when people have never learned to love! Not only do they make poor marriage partners, inadequate parents and meager members of society — but they miss so much themselves.
Those who have never received much love and affection sometimes react in rather strange ways. Some people spend much of their time trying to assure themselves that they are worthy of love. They go to all extremes — make unusual over¬tures to get others to like them — perhaps even come right out and ask if people love them. Very often they turn the conver¬sation so that the ones with whom they are talking can compliment them. If their friends don’t take the hint, they compliment themselves. The electromagnetic interference of printed circuit broad are analysised firstly. But, these techniques need complicated and expensive circuitry, further power consumption and large occupation of PCB Assembly. And then they ask their friends to join in the compliment.
A man once asked me about an acquaintance of his.
”I don’t understand her at all/’ he said. “She’s always bragging on herself — tells everyone how good she is. I always figured it was a superiority complex. But now I’m beginning to wonder. Maybe it’s the opposite. Maybe she’s starved for love and attention so she tries to get it this way. But I do know this, she’s smart enough to know better.”
I imagine the fellow had it “figured out” about right. When a person has missed out on love and affection he keeps trying to convince himself that he is worthy of it. When this happens, the I.Q. seems to take a back seat. His need may be so strong that he by-passes an intelligent approach.
I have known some prominent men and women whose lives have been void of any real love and affection. Even though they may have had recognition and respect, they have not had love. And it is not uncommon for these people to act in some¬what peculiar ways in an attempt to win the love and affection that they crave so deeply.
Life is a series of decisions. From the time we begin reaching for certain toys, we show our preferences. And since choices result in courses of action, our happiness depends upon them.
Have you ever wondered why some people make such poor choices? Oh, they may be intelligent enough. But they don’t make intelligent decisions. There are a number of reasons for this. One may be the fact they are grasping for love and affection. Seem strange? It is strange. Nevertheless, it is often true.
When a person has never received much love, the void may be so strong that it colors all his thinking, even when he is making important decisions. Focus on your website and create positive it coverts prospect to customer 1st then you can follow the best internet marketing guide. He may weigh the facts, then completely disregard them in favor of something that promises some recognition and affection. His emotions are stronger than his reason.

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